It's been a VERY long week
 Posted by Annie on October 9, 2010 at 12:40 PM |  delete  edit  comments (1) |
Trantrums with a nearly two yearold that last about 4 hrs are incredibly draining....... smacking his head hard against the walls, pushing furniture about , generally just trashing the house moving people out of the room etc can all take its toll...... Poor little Harry just sits there..... I know its incrednly hard for James as it is all of us.... these last few days have been a little easier.. although saying that Poor Oliver .. we went to bed at 1.30 only for James to have one of his sleep trantrums at 1.45.. Oliver got up with him and he finally settled at 8 am this morning....... That is what we wopuld call an ' all nighter! 'lol
Last night we held a fab mediumship eveing with our friend Gail and 10 of our friends...... some lovely messages came through and to my surprise the group had decided to very very kindly donate the money to us to go towards the renovation of our large shed. I was taken a back really.
isnt it great to have such supportive friends.. god i love them!!
Early inverention is the key with James.. if we can guide him in the right direction now it means everything......... so the SHED.... we are converting it into an amazing play place.... with lots of different taoys and games etc...... it should be far more structured than the rountine we have whilst being in the house.. its all to easy to go and do the washing up or pop the washing on!
This way we will go into the playroom and stay there for a set time with a set routine in it.
I cant wait.. i have an image of how it will look and am very excited for us... ( god does that sound sad?? )
we need to begin by raising some money.. darling oliver is selling his beloved motorcross bike and we have decided to sell all our baby bits and bobs.... so you know what that means... no more babies for us... ( gutted to say the least)
windows need to be replaced, new door, insulation, plasterboards, re felt the roof. add some more electirc points etc etc.. omg carpet and hey presto then we have the blank canvas to begin to put the room into shape.......
but all this takes time , effort and lots of money...
we dont have a lot of time... it takes two of us to deal with day to day life!!..
we rarely go shopping togther as James isnt that keen and if we do we know there maywell be a backlash afterwards to tend not to bother! It's crazy, sometime i feel like a prisioner in our own house!!
So whe the time comes i'll be doing a big shout out to anyone that mght be able to help.... coz GOD we will need it........
anyway.. im meant to be working...... Oliver will kill me!! lol
thank you for reading my waffle....... xx
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